• Motherhood

    Celebrating Journee

    Happy Halloween everyone!!! I know I’m two days early but life has been hectic lately with all the Halloween parties, fall festivals and Journee’s birthday (she’s a Halloween baby you know!) that’s right a full blood Spooky Scorpio of the night, and her attitude shows it! Lol   Now if you were watching my Instagram stories you can probably tell, we had baby girls birthday party this past Saturday. It was definitely Harry Potter themed. I will admit to this, I’m a last minute event planner which is why I’m not in that line of  business. I waited to long to get her outfit together and someone fell through so…

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    Failing

    So today’s blog is about me sharing how I deal with being human and a mother. I know it’s a weird thing right ? Being human? Being a mom? Well let’s get into it…….every single day I play this movie in my head over the decisions I have made and how they effect my children. I think about the things I did wrong, the ways I handled certain situations, did I love on them enough? Did I tell them I love them enough?  Did I forget something that they needed or wanted to do? All these thoughts especially came to mind this past weekend when I realized that I forgot…

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    Mommy’s Budget Shopping

    This past weekend I decided to go shopping for my kids because my daughter is out growing everything and my son is getting taller by the day not to mention his normal wear and tear on all his school clothes. Now being honest I really don’t have a lot of money to spend on clothes right now but as you will soon find out I am the budget queen. I will always figure out a way to have what I need and a little but if what I want.  So let me tell you about a little secret……….Consignment shops!!!! They are everywhere all you have to do is look! Here…

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    Birthing Stories

    Let’s talk about giving Birth! Alright so I’m gonna give you all the truths about childbirth and the good, the bad and the ugly, but before I scare you with the ugly I’m gonna start with the good. Pregnancy itself is such a beautiful and powerful thing. You are creating something so amazing, this life is growing inside of you and it feels amazing…..in the beginning. Than comes all the discomfort, the pains the wieght gain, the cravings and the BS that comes LABOR!!! So here’s my stories about each child.   The Story of Jaelon: with Jaelon my pregnancy itself was actually easy although he did give me this…

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    Oh Momma!

      So I’m backkkkkkkkkkk! This weekend was Mother’s Day and Also my son’s birthday. Clearly we share the same weekend every year and it’s never about me, it always ends up about him! ( which can be tiring) I don’t know if that’s just me being selfish but I would like to once have the day all about me, never mind the fact that I also share Mother’s Day with my mother and sister. The weekend begins with my son’s birthday festivities I go to his school and take him his birthday cupcakes and the party favors for his classmates and then I head off to work. For the rest…

  • Motherhood,  Travel

    i booked my trip to San Juan PR!!!

    I finally did! I booked my very first, by myself for my kids and myself to San Juan Puerto Rico! Some people might not see this as any type of accomplishment but I’m telling you it is for. I have always wanted to travel for the longest time and I would ask my family and my friends to come with me but it would never actually happen. I would end forgetting about it or getting discouraged because no one would come with me, I don’t have the money, I have kids I cant travel but all those excuses and lies I was telling myself just took me away from what…